WTF

So... anyone else have an ex from hell?  I'm sure there must be many women out there feeling the same way.  It's been over 12 years since the bastard cheated and decided that married life wasn't for him, and he is still wreaking havoc on me and my two teenage daughters.  Child support comes and goes.  His phone calls to the girls come and go, depending on how he is feeling that month.  I've taken him to court more times than I can remember, even had him arrested (not showing up in court) and put in jail (not paying child support while he was on unemployment... that story is another doosey). He owes his children over $93k, not including the healthcare premiums that he hasn't paid in over 2 years, or any extracurricular or college monies.  He is supposed to have a life insurance policy to protect his children in case something happens to him... does he?  Of course not.  He is balking at the moment because his job doesn't pay the same as the job he had when his child support went into effect, so he wants to decrease his weekly amount... seriously dude?  He seriously asked me to go to court and stop future child support payments, since he already owes so much that he will never be able to pay back.  He must think I have a screw loose.  I haven't fought this hard over the past 12 years for my daughters just to have all of this stop.  They deserve that money.  Someday they will get that money.  It will make their lives easier, since he has made their lives so hard over these past years.

Did I mention that he moved to another state, far away, even got remarried? I will never understand a parent that doesn't want to be with their children 24/7 (minus a few hours/days/week of a sanity vacation).  Yeah, yeah, he wines that after I put him in jail, he had to leave the state or I was going to throw him back in jail for arrears.  Well... hello???   Then maybe you should get a freaking job and pay your child support.  Instead, he has leached onto his next victim, unemployed for over 7 months, living off her and her family.  Yes, women... this is the man I married 20 years ago... I still can't believe I was so blind, so stupid, and so naive.  Yes, I have my two beautiful, talented daughters.  But boy, I sure picked a loser to be their father.

WTF???